African art is my calling, what is yours?

Lega Statue
These figures are usually owned by high-level members of the Bwami society. Each piece of lega art has a specific meaning and function and is used only by the initiated. These lega statues are referred to as sakimatwematwe (Many-Heads). The story goes that an elephant hunter crosses a river and sees an elephant on the other bank, he goes back to get help from the other hunters but when he returns sees that the elephant has already been killed by the others. In other words, the story shows the importance of being able to see in all directions and to be wise and fair-minded.



Sometimes when we believe so much in what we do, it's hard to find time for our loved ones or for ourselves. We all know how important our families are and also our own health and wellbeing. So, why do we find it so hard to dedicate quality time to our families and ourselves in the same way we do to our jobs and others.

It is such a beautiful and great thing to do, when we dedicate our lives to others and give them our time and energy. We make those others feel loved and cared for. But, how often do we make our loved ones feel just as loved and just as cared for? How often do we take time out to appreciate ourselves?

For the past month, I know that I have seriously concentrated on this piece of machine (my computer). "I have a deadline line to meet, we are re-designing the website and everything has got to be right", I kept telling myself and Jed. I never stopped to ask "at whose expense, have you got to meet those deadlines"? Who will pay the price for me keeping to that deadline? In my case, it was my family and myself. Now that the deadline has passed and I want to spend quality time with my family, I am much too tired to enjoy it. And, I have to wait for Jed to catch up and get off his treadmill!

In Africa the family is very important and we all know the future of our families lies in our children. It therefore, goes without saying that we need to pay special attention in the raising and teachings of our children. If we are to pay the price of feeling tired and worn out then let it be because we have dedicated quality time and energy to our families and loved ones and those others who really need it. Love and appreciate the people in your life while they are around and make sure you don't take them for granted.

Is it a coincidence that since I started writing this article, I have learned that both a customer and a supplier have been unwell? Work-life balance is very difficult for us to achieve. But, if we don't strive to achieve it, we are on our way to a slow death. We can all achieve great things but only when what we do nourishes and feeds our souls. If what we do in our day jobs doesn't live up to that, then find something that you love to create that balance.

I love what I am doing right now in my life. As you know, African art is my passion, it is my calling. Apart from the practicalities of running this business, I really like the opportunity of being able to communicate with people, whether they're customers or not. This is new to me and something that I have learned about myself since doing this business. This aspect, further nurtures my soul. I never knew I had it in me. I am three quarters of the way to surrendering to my calling. How near are you to yours?

In tribal life, one is forced to slow down, to experience the now and commune with the earth and nature. Patience is a must; no one seems to understand the meaning of "hurry up."

- Sobonfu Some

Life, Death, Life after Death?

This piece of art is produced by the Makonde people of southern Tanzania and is called the "Tree of Life" or Ujamaa. It depicts the members of an extended family both past and present generations, supporting each other, around the family ancestor. Emphasing the importance of both unity and continuity.

Earlier today, a dear friend of mine's father passed away. Today, I feel sad and tearful. Sad for my friend, sad for myself. Tears for my friend and tears for myself. I hope this doesn't sound too selfish but that is honestly how I feel. Hearing about this death brings back all the anxieties and fears that I felt when my mother passed away. It makes me recall the death of other loved ones - my brother, my father-in-law, my friend - and all the other lives that you hear that have been lost.

I don't think that anyone can argue that death is not inevitable. We know that it will definitely happen to all of us one day. The exact time, the exact moment that it will happen, we can never tell. However, is that it? Is there life after death? Who prepares us for death? I used to find death so very frightening but I feel much calmer about it now. Why? I am not sure. Maybe it's about time. They say time is a great healer. Over time I have debated and reasoned with myself and others about the issue, so maybe time and being able to talk about it has helped me to come to terms with death.

My relationship with African art, I believe, has helped me with my view on death. In my deepest darkest moments it has filled me with peace. When I don't want to face the outside world, like today, I find solace and comfort in my arts. In African societies, art has been an important and effective tool in solving problems and overcoming adversity. It encompasses the entire cycle of life from birth, to initiation, through to death and the afterlife. Although removed from their African context and placed in my home, African art has been given a new lease of life. It is no longer an empty shell, it now has soul.

An important function of African art is to honour ancestors or family members that have passed away. In African society, even when a member of the family has died they still play an important role in family life and are recognised through rituals.

I believe the loved ones we have lost watch over us and participate in our everyday lives. We need to ensure in every way we can that they still play an important role in our everyday lives.

Thinking of you.

In Celebration of the Women of Africa

The Power comes from women. Even if a man reigns on the throne, one recognizes nevertheless the dignity of the woman as a source of power. It is from her that power emanated.
Banze Mukangala (a luba male office holder)

The 8th March is International Women's Day and although I already know this, I find myself sitting here thinking, a women's life is really tough! We have to be so many things to so many different people and we are expected to balance them perfectly and come out smiling at the other end. Well, I don't know about you but I am exhausted! I have decided that I want to be a man! and have his compartmentalised brain, that can only concentrate on one thing at a time rather than be a woman trying to deal with a multitude of things all at the same time.


When I was growing up, the women that I admired around me, were those that I considered to be very hardworking. They were leaders in their professions. My mother (like most mothers) for instance, was very talented. She was a brilliant chef, a nurse, a cleaner, an accountant, an advisor, a counsellor, a critical friend, a wise woman, and a wife. I admired her dearly and most of all I respected her strength of character.

When I look at the Zulu women of South Africa and the Luba women from the Democratic Republic of Congo, I share the same respect and admiration for them acknowledging the different circumstances, vulnerabilities and the roles they played within their respective societies.

Luba women were important members of their society. In Luba art women were held in high esteem, respected and honoured as spiritual magnates. Female representations were in an array of art forms in a wide variety of poses and contexts. They served as priestesses, political advisers, ambassadors, and also as wives and mothers. In addition to these roles, their bodies served as spirit vessels for deceased males;

Only the body of a woman is strong enough to hold a spirit as powerful as that of a king.

Ngeleka (a Luba male titleholder)

Need I say more?

Zulu women also play an important and crucial role within the nation of the Zulu people. These women are the backbone of the family. They undertake all aspects of domestic life as well as raise the children, look after the elderly and still make money for the family with their skilled artistry. In addition to this they often have to undertake hard manual labour, such as growing crops, looking after livestock and chopping and collecting firewood and water. They do all of this whilst their husbands simply go to work in the cities. Most Zulu women are not allowed to go to work, as it is the belief that a women’s place is in the home. However, this is gradually changing in South Africa and more and more women are going to work in the cities.

Zulu women are renowned nationally and internationally for their weaving of the fabulous beer baskets and bowls. With the help of charitable organisations Zulu women have taken their traditional art and turned it into a means of supplementing their incomes.

There we have it, two examples of the power of women. Did I hear someone say......who needs men?

One is not born beautiful, but rather becomes beautiful over the course of a lifetime.

Luba Proverb

Feeling Special for a Week

Today is a week since Valentine's Day. I had asked my customers to follow my recipe for an African themed Valentine's Date. I suggested they:

*Check out some African art at Kafele's;

*Share an intimate meal for 2;

*Watch a romantic African Film or play some romantic tunes. I had recommended
"Say Good-bye" by Howard Hewett. "What, who"? I hear you ask. It's ok, it's a beautiful ballad to wrap yourself in.

*And finally, I had asked for them to celebrate Valentine' Day for the whole week.
Don't you agree that one day is not enough to feel special?

Well, starting backwards. I certainly celebrated it for a week. Jed has been away this week in Belfast sharing his love with a group of young people. This is the longest period of time we have ever been apart. And, I have to say I missed him dearly. We phoned each other every day and expressed some of that love and miss you stuff (sloppy, I know). I also shared this love with my older daughter as she too was away from home.

I listened to Howard Hewitt - on my own (as Jed had gone by then). But ooh! did it sound sweet.

We ate an African/Caribbean meal for 3 at home (with our younger daughter).

We gave a piece of African art (Songye Mask) to a business associate. Simply because he is extremely helpful and such a nice guy.

Remember this is an African Art Retreat and we can do more or less what we like here.

I hope you had a wonderful Valentine's Week.

Spirit Spouses of the Otherworld

One of my favourite pieces of art is a "pair" of Baule figures. They are not really a pair even though one is male and the other is female. They are very beautifully carved and the meaning behind them I believe is kinda spooky but exciting.

The Baule are from Cote d' Ivoire and believe that the Otherworld (Blolo) exists parallel to our world and that the two are a reflection of one another. Blolo is the place where we were before we were born and where we return to after death. Therefore, every living person has an Otherworld family.

This I believe. To me it explains some of the feelings I get.

The most important to the Baule of all the Otherworld inhabitants are their spouses, the blolo bian (men) and the blolo bla (women). This is because of the power that these figures can exert in our world. The Baule believe that power and influence can be exerted from either world.

This I believe. Our spouses can take up a lot of our thinking time especially when there are disagreements. Did you ever stop to think, that there could be someone out there stirring things for you?

A Baule figure is usually commissioned when a person in this world is faced with a problem, often related to relationship issues (e.g. sexual problems with their partner or maybe problems with conceiving).

I have just had a thought! Maybe I could commission a diviner to replace Jed with Denzel! Now that is a thought!

A diviner is then consulted to determine whether the cause of the problem is related to one’s spiritual spouse. In response, the diviner may recommend that a figure representing the Otherworld spouse should be carved. The figure’s appearance is based upon images from the Otherworld that the person in this world experiences in dreams. The figure is then placed in the home after a ceremony has been performed.

This is the bit where I start saying this man is having an affair! (I use man but you can use what you like) I have always said if he is thinking about another woman he is being unfaithful. If he is dreaming about another woman he is being unfaithful!

The figure is then cleaned regularly and receives regular offerings. In addition, the person must also make skin contact with the figure as part of the cleaning ceremony to ensure a close bond is formed between the person in this world and the otherworld spouse. Through this relationship the problems are hopefully resolved as the otherworld spouse will be appeased and any future problems prevented.

That is it! What more proof do you need this calls for a divorce (in my case). I am definetly going to replace him with Denzel!

To the Baule people these figures are not pieces of art but an integral part of their belief system.

I know I have given a light- hearted take on this and I sincerely do not mean any disrespect. But, I do love this meaning. Do you see what I mean by spooky but exciting? I truly love and treasure these figures, they are simply gorgeous. Whilst I am thinking about it, I have to thank Jed. He fell in love with them first (aesthetically, that is), I fell in love with the meaning.

I would love to hear what you think about this article? Do you believe there is an Otherworld that exists parallel to this world?


[References: Vogel, Susan Miller 1997 African Art/Western Eyes. New Haven, Yale University press. Davis, Seth, Davidson College - Fall 2001]

African art stirs my soul

So many people have said to me that my eyes light up when I talk about African art. I am beginning to believe this now, as I feel lit up inside when I do speak about it. I am not sure why? Maybe it stimulates and excites me in a way that other mundane things doesn’t. In fact, that’s what it does. It makes me happy. There is no politics in African art, (ok, there is politics in just about everything) but you know what I mean. When I have a conversation with others and their faces appear blank as I go ranting on, it doesn’t matter this is something that I love and it gives me pleasure (selfish of me, I know). What I try to do. No! what I intend to do. No! that’s not right either. What I do when I have a discussion with others about African art is to communicate my passion and fascination with the subject. This is not shallow superficial talk but genuine talk this is who I am talk.

Now, that I have got that out of the way. I wanted to tell you why I have decided to do a BLOG. By the way, Jed doesn’t know what a BLOG is and I can have a little chuckle to myself about that. He is the one that’s supposedly up on technology not me. Anyway, why did I decide to do a blog. Well a couple of people that I know have suggested this to me. I was told it would be one way for me to talk about African art in a chatty informal and heartfelt way.

To be truthful, I avoided doing one at first because I thought this is going to be hard work and what do I have to say that would be of interest to anyone. I am not an expert. I don’t know the arts inside out. To be honest, I read so much about the different pieces, the country of origin and the usages that I get confused on occasions. But hey! When I get it wrong I feel no way about admitting it. It doesn’t matter, as I am not trying to impress anyone.

African art as therapy
A friend of ours came to visit us and his parting remarks were “…your home is very peaceful, you have a wonderful family, you are very lucky.”

And, you know something, I am not one for accepting compliments very well ( I am learning) but you know, what he said is true. I am lucky. The African arts in our home create a real sense of peace. I am convinced that the peace and tranquillity that wraps itself up like an old familiar cuddly blanket around our home emanates from these beautiful pieces of art. Good family and friends enhance this sense of tranquillity and harmony.

Through these pages, I would like to somehow share that sense of peace and tranquility with you. I want to create an African retreat that you can escape to, relax and feel at peace.

My advice to anyone who is feeling stressed or unhappy is to find something or someone preferably a combination of the two to bring you that sense of peace. Try a piece of art. Learn about its origin and significance. I promise you, it will amaze you and learning something new and different is very fulfilling, amazingly empowering and more importantly, very rewarding.